Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I help men develop their dominance, women to surrender to their submission, and couples to experience deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy.
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Enter the Dom is your straight-talking, no-fluff guide to becoming the kind of man a submissive woman craves submitting to. You’ll learn how to step fully into your power—inside and outside the bedroom.
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Packed with real-life stories, raw honesty, and zero fluff, this book cuts through the BS and delivers the tools you need to transform your relationships and unlock a level of intimacy you never thought possible. You’ll learn how to step fully into your power—inside and outside the bedroom. Whether you're a seasoned Dom or just starting to explore your dominant side, "Enter the Dom" is your essential guide to becoming the man women respect, desire, and willingly submit to.
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In this course, master the 12 essential steps to become a good Dom—build the skills, mindset, and presence of a man she respects, desires, and willingly surrenders to. Learn to lead with confidence inside and outside the bedroom.
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Private 1:1 (or 1:2) coaching to help men develop their Dominance, women to surrender to their submission, and couples to experience deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, fulfilling emotional intimacy, and integrating loving Dom/sub dynamics into your relationships.
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Curious about bondage but not ready for rope? Discover light bondage for beginners—safe, sexy ways to restrain your partner without needing knots. Learn fun, easy techniques using everyday items and build trust and intimacy in your BDSM play.
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Want a D/s dynamic but not sure how to start with a new partner? Learn how to build your Dom/sub relationship step by step—no experience or rigid contract required. Explore bottom-up D/s dynamics that grow with you.
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Need to have a talk with a partner? This guide explores the art of navigating difficult conversations, with proven tools for improving communication skills, and creating deeper connections—whether in serious or casual relationships.
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What draws people to degradation kink, and how can something so taboo become deeply healing? This article unpacks the psychology, purpose, and ethical practice of degradation kink in BDSM, including how it differs from humiliation and objectification. Learn how to engage in these dark arts with intention, consent, and care—for both Dominants and submissives.
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Ever felt the urge to growl, bite, or pin your partner down in a wild, uninhibited frenzy? Primal play is a raw and instinctual form of BDSM that strips away rules and protocol, letting your animalistic desires take over. Whether you're into rough sex, consensual non-consent (CNC), wrestling for dominance, or simply craving deep, carnal connection—this guide explores everything you need to unleash your wild side.
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Want to step into a truly dominant mindset without feeling like you're just playing a role? Discover how embracing your authentic desires, removing shame, and learning to take control will transform your confidence and give your submissive exactly what she craves.
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Curious about taking pleasure to the next level? Discover how orgasm control goes far beyond edging, exploring techniques like forced orgasms and orgasm denial to create intense connection, arousal, and submission.
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Want to deepen intimacy and pleasure through touch? Tantric Touch enhances connection with intentional, mindful techniques for sensual intimacy, deeper bonding, and experiencing pleasure beyond goal-driven sex.
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Do you actually want a Dom, a Top, or just rough sex? Many people use the word "Dominant" without defining their desires, leading to frustration and disappointment. Learn the differences between rough sex, kinky play with a skilled Top, and power exchange with a Dom—helping you clarify what you want and communicate it effectively.
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Looking to deepen your intimacy and enhance pleasure? Discover the power of tantric breathing techniques and learn how to connect with your partner on a whole new level through mindful breathwork.
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