Has your partner asked you to be "more dominant" or "more submissive" in the bedroom, but you feel like an imposter and have no idea how to bring that energy?
Or maybe you’ve had a partner for a while and now you want to deepen your relationship and intensify your sex life with a Dom/sub dynamic…
Perhaps, you’ve tried several times to build a Dom/sub dynamic, but it keeps failing…
Are you feeling…
Inauthentic and uncomfortable starting out as a Dom or sub?
Hopeless that you’ll ever be able to make a D/s dynamic work for you?
Confused on how to integrate Dom/sub dynamics into your everyday life?
Frustrated because your sex life has become dull and unfulfilling?
Afraid to be your true self and act on your secret desires and fantasies?
Confused on how to integrate Dom/sub dynamics into your everyday life?
Tired of staying silent about your wants and needs?
Lost because you don’t know how to communicate with your partner?
Unconfident in yourself and your skills as a lover?
Afraid your partner will reject, leave, and ghost you if you open up about your desires?
Overwhelmed by trying to figure out the landscape of sexuality, BDSM, kink, and Tantra?
If you’re a man who wants to be Dominant, are you feeling unconfident, struggling to lead them in the bedroom and the relationship? Or fear that if you let yourself act on your desires, you’ll physically or emotionally harm her?
If you’re a woman who wants to be submissive, are you afraid of the uncertainty of what might happen if you let go of control and struggle trusting yourself, men, or anyone with your care and safety?
Do you want to take your relationship to the next level by incorporating a D/s dynamic?
If you answered “no” to all of these questions, great! You can close this page.
But if you nodded your head at least once and want to stop wasting energy and effort on unfulfilling relationships and a vanilla sex life…
And start cultivating deep intimacy and experiencing your most tantalizing and daring desires…
Then you’re in the right place. Keep reading.
There are 6 issues keeping you from the Dominant/submissive fantasy you crave.
Lack of Self Awareness
Societal programming has blocked you from understanding yourself, your desires, your emotions, and your own erotic mind. Then they tied a bow of shame and guilt around your cage.
Coaching will help you unlock your desire, giving you tools to explore yourself and experience core desires, establish boundaries, and know what you want without shame.
Poor Communication Skills
You and your partner continue to talk past one another and you struggle to openly share your emotions, needs and limitations without feeling shame, fearing rejection, or being judged.
Coaching will help you express yourself clearly, honestly and authentically, inside of a container of trust, openness and non-judgement so you can truly connect with your partner.
Lack of Confidence
You’ve become timid about your desires, afraid you’ll mess something up, and can’t confidently step into the headspace of the Dominant or submissive role.
Coaching will help you remove your roadblocks, become secure in yourself and your abilities, and allow you to confidently act on your desires and drive your partner wild.
Lack of Trust & Respect
As a submissive, If you don’t trust or respect your partner you won’t submit to them. As a Dominant, you might ignore, abuse, or disregard them. Both sides are wearing armor that keeps you from true connection.
Coaching will help you become a person who can be respected and trusted while helping you connect with others who authentically align with your relationship values.
Lack of Polarity & Chemistry
When your sexual connection becomes repetitive or feels like an obligation, it’s hard to feel truly excited, or fulfilled.
Coaching will help you embrace the polarity of Dominance and submission to create a passionate dynamic with hot, intense, sexual chemistry.
Doing Too Much, Too Fast
When you’re excited to bring your fantasies to life, you rush creating a structure for your D/s dynamic that becomes a burden and kills your dreams.
Coaching will walk you step by step to build a solid structure that works with your real life, your unique desires, and is designed to grow and evolve as your relationship does.
Gentleman, what if you could…
...cultivate unwavering confidence, take charge with decisive leadership, and exude the raw, magnetic power that draws her in, becoming the man she respects, desires, and willingly submits to.
What if you could learn the presence and behavior of a good Dom that protects, nurtures, and supports her, creating a safe environment for her to go from composed, proper “good girl” to a feral, sex-driven nympho.
What if you could become the Alpha and the Omega of her world. A place where she puts her trust, devotion, and confidence in you to lead her. In return, you’ll feel her admiration, respect, and ultimately her love.
The feeling that makes you feel invincible—like you could slay dragons.
Ladies, what if you could…
...know beyond a shadow of a doubt he has your best interests at heart—he will care for you when you are at your most vulnerable, with complete surrender of control.
Where you are so loved and desired that he is willing to care for you and keep you safe, no matter what, allowing you to explore your own desires and fantasies while really leaning into your submission as a part of a loving dynamic.
What if you could be in a state of tranquility, fully sinking into the pleasure of the fantasy realm—a special bubble without stress or pressure. A place where you don’t have to make any decisions, accept responsibility for what happens, or worry about anything—period.
It’s liberation and freedom from worry, anxiety, uncertainty, and the stressful realities of life. A state that recharges your mental, emotional, and spiritual batteries so she can battle through another week of life. A state of pure bliss.
It’s time to transform your sex life and relationships and unlock a level of intimacy you never thought possible…
Introducing D/s Coaching
8 weeks of private coaching to help couples build D/s dynamics for deeper bonds, intense, passionate sex, fulfilling emotional intimacy, and integrating it D/s into their everyday lives.
Sex positive
Open minded
Non judgmental
Kink friendly
Spirituality friendly
Poly friendly
In 8 weeks you’ll learn how to…
Structure D/s dynamics that actually work for your relationship
Weave your D/s dynamic into your everyday life
Unlock your desire without shame or guilt
Confidently speak up for your needs and easily assert your boundaries
Overcome insecurities surrounding your relationship or sex life
Master Dominance, not just in the bedroom, but in every aspect of your life
Mastering Dominance, not just in the bedroom, but in every aspect of your life.
Confidently step into the Dominant mindset that calls forth her submission
Overcome codependency and people pleasing patterns in your submission
Surrender to submission from a place of self respect and strength
Expand the menu of what’s possible in your sex and pleasure
Create deep, sexual polarity in your relationship
Here's What D/s Coaching Includes
Proven step by step process tailored for your unique D/s dynamic in a way that supports loving power exchange and actually works within your real lives
Individual coaching to uncover your desires, boundaries, and personal roadblocks to embracing your Dominant or submissive roles.
Couples coaching to lead you through difficult conversations, develop your dynamic’s structure, and review contracts, protocols, and rules.
Fun sexercises to deepen your connection, build trust, and finally start experiencing the sex you’ve been craving.
Price: $800 Per Month
I'm Ready!Note: Given the depth of coaching that will be provided for both of you, I can only take on four couples at any given time.
About Brandon The Dom
Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I was just like you once, full of a brimming desire to explore all of my sexuality and having no clue where to learn how to do so. Yes, the internet is a magical place, but it’s full of a lot of noise and fluff. It was hard to find in depth material by people who actually live this lifestyle. Which is why I started this website, to help guide you.
Let’s cut to the chase. I’m not going to BS you with a ton of marketing lingo to convince you that this coaching will radically change your sex life and relationships.
In fact, I know that what I have to share with you will change your life because people just like you tell me so…
Here's How to Get Started
Just follow these 3 easy steps:
Fill out the coaching application.
Schedule a personal 30-min call to see if coaching is right for you.
Pay for your coaching package and schedule your first session.
Price: $800 Per Month
Apply Now!Frequently Asked Questions
We meet online allowing you to be in the privacy and comfort of your own home. If you reside in Austin, TX, options for meeting in person are available.
Coaching packages are an 8 week commitment. We meet online once a week. Each appointment lasts 60-90 minutes. In between our sessions, you will move toward your goals with full support from me. At the end, you decide whether another package would serve you.
It's up to you. You will have an opportunity to transform important aspects of yourself within this 8 week period. Many of my clients declare success after one round of coaching and move into a lifetime of fulfilling intimate relationships. Others choose to participate for longer.
Each 8 week package starts at $3000. For 8 weeks we will meet regularly and we will be communicating in between to keep you on track as you make changes in your life. We will be in close communication, as much as you want, during our time together.
This is an investment. An investment in a fulfilling sex life and relationships, with yourself and others. The price tag is reasonable when you compare it with the cost of a lifetime of loneliness, a lifetime of pills and potions (or maybe surgeries), decades of psychotherapy, or the medical problems that come from isolation and anxiety every time you try to pursue intimacy.
Not quite ready for a full commitment? No sweat. Let’s have a single 90-min session. The cost for a one-off session is $197. If you decide to commit to a full package afterwards, I’ll put that towards the 3-month investment.
You'll never have a fulfilling relationship with another person if you don't have one with yourself. While couples will both find value in working through this content together, individuals will find deep support in learning to embody their own side of a Dom/sub dynamic, while coming to a powerful understanding of the other side of the equation.
While this coaching may overlap with areas you’ve explored, it also offers unique perspectives and practices, particularly around dominance & submission, masculine and feminine sexual polarity, and sacred intimacy. Even if some concepts are familiar, the depth of practice, and the opportunity to ask someone who has been a practitioner for a long time can bring a fresh perspective and deeper integration. There are always deeper layers of growth and learning to explore.
Absolutely! What’s most important is your openness, curiosity, and commitment to the process of transformation and taking action. In fact, it’s designed for those new to the world of deep emotional relating, BDSM, Tantra, & kink but who think they may want to try these in the bedroom or in their everyday life. If this sounds like you, and you want to explore the depths of relationships you could have, this coaching is for you.
