We meet online allowing you to be in the privacy and comfort of your own home.

Each coaching session is 60-minutes each week in addition to time for home exercises and practices, which are usually about 15 minutes, 2-5 times per week.

You commit to meet for twelve sessions within three months with the option to move to every other week, every three weeks, once a month, or on an as-needed basis after that.

We can alternate coupled and individual sessions as requested and advised.

When you arrive to the video call, we enter into that time together that is intentional.

The bulk of the session will focus on helping you discover yourself, defining your goals, developing structure, reviewing practices, overcoming challenges, and exploring the next steps toward what you want to experience.

Throughout, I will review resources with you to explore in between sessions over the next week and beyond.

Afterward, I check in by email a few days later. You can use this as an opportunity to check in with yourself, your partner, and/or hit reply and share with me what you’re experiencing.

Therapy and counseling are a great fit for people who want to talk about their sex, love, and/or relationship problems and gain awareness of the problems themselves.

Coaching is more appropriate for people who are aware of the problem and are committed and ready to take action to get what they want instead.

The coaching I offer involves a wide variety of tools, practices, and techniques to get you results as quickly as possible.

If you want to move from struggling or okay to thriving and flourishing, coaching is how you get there to experience and embody it.

While this coaching may overlap with areas you’ve explored, it also offers unique perspectives and practices, particularly around dominance & submission, masculine and feminine sexual polarity, and sacred intimacy.

Even if some concepts are familiar, the depth of practice, and the opportunity to ask someone who has been a practitioner for a long time can bring a fresh perspective and deeper integration.

There are always deeper layers of growth and learning to explore.

I work with people in open relationships, polyamorous relationships, monogamous, and fluid or dynamic relationships.

Working with people individually to gain clarity on their sexuality and relationships is also a part of my offerings.

We can alternate coupled and individual sessions as requested and advised.

I will work with you to curate a coaching experience relevant for your relationship structure.

You'll never have a fulfilling relationship with another person if you don't have one with yourself.

While couples will both find value in working through this together, individuals will find deep support in learning to embody their own side of a Dom/sub dynamic, while coming to a powerful understanding of the other side of the equation.

Absolutely! What’s most important is your openness, curiosity, and commitment to the process of transformation and taking action.

In fact, it’s designed for those new to the world of deep emotional relating, BDSM, Tantra, & kink but who think they may want to try these in the bedroom or in their everyday life.

If this sounds like you, and you want to explore the depths of relationships you could have, this coaching is for you.

I offer a free 15-minute phone call and an online paid introductory session to discover if we are a good fit for one another.

After our time together, I send you a follow-up email with resources as well as an email checking in with you a few days later.

To reflect a committed, mutually-beneficial relationship, I require payment for my time and expertise.

If we decide to work together, next steps include reviewing and signing a trust and service agreement to make our expectations known and clear to one another.

Working on sex, love, and relationships can trigger fear.

Fear can influence our actions, and we may decide staying comfortable is more important than moving through difficulty and toward growth.

I value honesty and am happy to have a frank conversation with you to find out whether a desire to end our commitment to a discussed container is coming from a place of fear or because we’re not a good match.

Sometimes unexpected life events can affect your ability to fully participate in a coaching container.

If this happens, I ask that you communicate with me, so we can create a plan.

In cooperation with your commitment and agreement, I commit to working with you for a specific amount of time.

One or both people are welcome to voluntarily remove themselves from the coaching container.

However, participants who voluntarily exit or discontinue any program will not receive a refund on funds already paid.

Exiting the program early financially impacts me, and for this reason, my expectation is that you fulfill your commitment to pay the remaining balance over the duration mutually agreed upon if we don’t have an open conversation around next steps for everyone.

A three month package is either one payment of $4,500 or 3 payments of $1,500.

‍This is an investment. An investment in a fulfilling sex life and relationships, with yourself and others.

The price tag is reasonable when you compare it with the cost of a lifetime of loneliness, a lifetime of pills and potions (or maybe surgeries), decades of psychotherapy, or the medical problems that come from isolation and anxiety every time you try to pursue intimacy.

Not quite ready for a full investment? No worries—Let's schedule a one-off coaching call for $197.