You Want to Lead. But Something’s Holding You Back.
You’ve got fantasies about being in control—really in control—but when it comes time to take the lead, you freeze up.
Maybe women have told you they want more dominance from you in the bedroom… but you’re not sure what that even looks like—or how to get there without feeling like a total imposter.
Maybe sex has grown routine. Disconnected. Dull. You love your partner, but you’re both quietly frustrated. You know there’s more possible. More heat. More intimacy. More power.
Or maybe you’re just tired—tired of hiding what you really want. Tired of staying silent about your desires, afraid that if you finally told the truth about what turns you on… she’d judge you, reject you, or worse—leave.
Any of this sound familiar…
You’re afraid of taking the lead and doing it “wrong.”
You don’t want to look like a fool or mess things up in the bedroom.
You’re unsure how to communicate what you want in a way that actually works.
You feel unconfident—like you don’t know how to tap into your masculine power.
You’re wondering if you even have what it takes to be a good Dom.
This isn’t just about sex. It’s about how you show up in your whole life.
Maybe your partner wants you to step up—but you’re not even sure what “stepping up” means. Maybe you’ve never had anyone show you what it looks like to lead with clarity, confidence, and deep integrity.
And if you’re stuck here—it’s not your fault. Nobody taught you how to embody healthy, powerful Dominance. Until now.
I Was Just Like You Once...
Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom.
Today I help men step into their Dominance, guide women into surrender, and support couples in creating deeper intimacy, wilder sex, and stronger emotional connection.
But I wasn’t always this clear or confident.
I was just like you—brimming with desire but unsure where to begin. I had a fire in me, a hunger to explore the full range of my sexuality, but no roadmap, no role models, and definitely no clue how to talk about it.
We all start out as Doms with shaky hands and weak commands.
I came from a family with terrible relationship models—my mom raised me alone while my dad racked up divorces. I never saw a healthy example of love, sex, or partnership.
I made it through a decade-long relationship (including four years of marriage), but the passion dried up. I felt like something vital inside me was being smothered.
After the divorce, I dove headfirst into the BDSM scene. I went to my first play party, got trained as a dungeon monitor, hosted munches, threw my own parties, and built deep, honest, kinky relationships with incredible women—all while learning how to be emotionally available, ethically non-monogamous, and confidently dominant.
This path changed everything—not just in the bedroom, but in my leadership, confidence, and life as a whole.
And now, I’m here to help you walk that same path—with a whole lot less confusion and trial-and-error than I went through.
Imagine Her Surrendering to You Completely…
She sinks into her sweet feminine energy, releasing all of her inhibitions for you.
Her eyes lock on yours, wide, devoted, craving your lead. She trusts you. She respects you. She desires you.
For that moment, you are her entire world.
You’re not pretending. You’re not forcing it. You’re simply embodying the man you’ve always known you could be—the man she can’t help but submit to.
That’s the power of true Dominance. And it feels like nothing else.
If that vision stirs something deep inside you, then Developing Dominance was made for you.
Developing Dominance
This isn’t just another “spicy” bedroom trick guide.
This is a complete initiation into Dominance—not as a performance, but as a way of life.
The training is split into two powerful parts:
Inner Dominance – Master your mindset, presence, and self-leadership. Build unshakable confidence and the energy women naturally want to follow.
Outer Dominance – Gain the tools, strategies, and structure to create thrilling, consensual dynamics. Lead with clarity, power, and erotic authority.
By the end, you’ll know exactly how to step into the role of Dom with authenticity—without faking bravado or stumbling blindly.
What You'll Learn Inside Each Step
Deprogramming Yourself
Identify the societal rules, beliefs, and etiquette keeping you small or sexually suppressed.
Let go of outdated conditioning that doesn’t serve your desires or goals.
Define your personal needs and boundaries—and start standing up for them like a man.
Taking 100% Responsibility
Get radically honest about where you are—and where you truly want to be.
Define the core values that will guide your Dominance.
Build a clear action plan to start living life on your own terms.
Building Confidence
Develop an attractive self-image that draws people in naturally.
Build the inner and outer skills needed to create the life you crave.
Cultivate real self-esteem so you’re no longer needy, clingy, or insecure.
Treat yourself with the self-respect that makes others take notice.
Cultivating Awareness
Learn to track your thoughts, emotions, and body like a finely tuned instrument.
Increase emotional intelligence and empathy to lead with clarity and presence.
Fix your vibe—so you naturally command respect and attention.
Gaining Power
Learn how to inspire others to willingly give you power and authority.
Face your fears and move through them with courage and clarity.
Live in full integrity with yourself and others—because real power is clean.
Feeling Love
Open to an abundance of love without becoming soft or self-sacrificing.
Show up as a kind and generous man without giving away your power.
Accept, value, and love yourself so deeply that others can’t help but do the same.
Deciding What You Want
Uncover your deepest erotic desires and most intimate fantasies.
Define your sexual boundaries and relationship structure.
Explore your own Dominant style—what makes you a uniquely powerful Dom.
Asking For What You Want
Learn how to ask for what you want in a way that turns your submissive on.
Create safe, consensual dynamics where giving becomes a gift of devotion.
Get your needs met without guilt, manipulation, or awkwardness.
Mastering Communication
Speak your sexual desires clearly and confidently—without fear of judgment.
Make your partner feel deeply seen, understood, and led.
Assert boundaries without conflict, and negotiate like a calm, clear leader.
Give clear commands that make your submissive feel safe and turned on.
Breaking Shame
Release shame about your sexual desires and make peace with your turn-ons.
Quit judging women for their sexuality—and help them unleash it instead.
Surround yourself with people who celebrate your erotic truth.
Learn how to process shame and talk openly about your kinks and identity.
Igniting Your Sexual Dominance
Tap into your authentic Dominant headspace with ease.
Master the verbal, physical, and psychological tools of erotic leadership.
Confidently talk dirty in a way that sends your submissive into subspace.
Discover your favorite kinks, scenes, and toys—and learn how to wield them well.
Create unforgettable sex sessions that leave her breathless, blissed out, and begging for more.
Building a D/s Dynamic
Attract submissive women who crave your specific style of Dominance.
Build a dynamic that fits your actual life—whether that’s monogamous, poly, 24/7, or part-time.
Learn how to sustain long-term power exchange without it feeling like a chore
What's Included In Developing Dominance
12 clear and concise steps covering everything from fundamentals to advanced techniques. Each module features multiple lessons and exercises which build on each other to help you learn quickly.
47 modules with over 5 hours of content. The comprehensive lessons cover everything you need to know about being a Dom, all organised into bite-sized videos for easy viewing.
Actionable exercises and journaling prompts with every lesson. You won’t just be learning theory, but rather taking real action towards developing your Dominance
Practical tips from an experienced Dominant who lives the lifestyle. I’ll not only give you useful information, but also share insights into my relationships and how I work dominance into my everyday life.
Price: $800 Per Month
BONUS: Get Started with D/s Fast!
When you enroll in Developing Dominance, you immediately gain access to 2 hours of extra bonus modules that walk you through how to get started with Dominance & submission right away.
Kickstarting D/s in the Bedroom
Want to get started with D/s now and experience all the hot, passionate, kink you’ve been dreaming of? This module will help you learn how to safely and quickly do Dominance and submission in the bedroom without getting overwhelmed.
Overcoming your Fears in D/s
Learn proven strategies and mindset shifts for overcoming the most common fears for a man stepping into Dominance or a woman stepping into submission.
Step by Step Process to Building a D/s Dynamic
Learn how to build your Dom/sub relationship step by step—no experience or rigid contract required. This easy 5 step process will allow you to take your D/s dynamic outside of the bedroom and begin integrating into the rest of your life in a way that actually works for you.
The Choice Is Yours...
Self-Study Course
Immediate access to all 12 steps + bonus modules. Learn at your own pace.
A complete 12-step system for building your Dominance
47 bite-sized modules (5+ hours of video)
Actionable exercises and journaling prompts
Practical tips from an experienced Dominant
BONUS: 3 free bonus modules to get started with D/s fast!
Course + 1:1 Mentorship
Includes the full course PLUS a private 60-minute Zoom call with Brandon. Get personalized guidance, assignments, and a custom growth plan.
Developing Dominance Course and materials
1:1 60-minute Mentorship calls over Zoom
Custom growth plan tailored to your specific goals
One Last Word...
You were never meant to shrink yourself to fit someone else’s expectations.
You were meant to lead.
To claim what you want with confidence.
To inspire submission not through force, but through presence.
To create a life of passion, purpose, and erotic power that only a true Dominant can hold.
This path isn’t for everyone—but if you’ve read this far, you already know it’s for you.
It’s time to take the first step.
Frequently Asked Questions
Absolutely! In fact, it’s designed for those new to the world of BDSM but who think they may want to try power play in the bedroom or in their everyday life. If this sounds like you, and you want to develop your Dominance, this course is for you.
Both! It’s appropriate for man who wishes to develop his Dominance for himself, his partners, and his future relationships.
You have access for years to come… and there is a lot in this training that you’ll probably want to come back to in the weeks after you complete it.
Yes! I want you to be thrilled with the course and to change your relationships for the better. If you aren’t satisfied with your purchase you can email me for a full refund.
