You’ve got fantasies about being in control—really in control—but when it comes time to take the lead, you freeze up.
Maybe women have told you they want more dominance from you in the bedroom… but you’re not sure what that even looks like—or how to get there without feeling like a total imposter.
Maybe sex has grown routine. Disconnected. Dull. You love your partner, but you’re both quietly frustrated. You know there’s more possible. More heat. More intimacy. More power.
Or maybe you're just tired—tired of hiding what you really want. Tired of staying silent about your desires, of being afraid that if you finally told the truth about what turns you on… she’d judge you, reject you, or worse—leave.
Any of this sound familiar…
You’re afraid of taking the lead and doing it “wrong.”
You don’t want to look like a fool or mess things up in the bedroom.
You’re unsure how to communicate what you want in a way that actually works.
You feel unconfident—like you don’t know how to tap into your masculine power.
You’re wondering if you even have what it takes to be a good Dom.
And it’s not just about sex.
It’s about how you show up in your whole life.
You’re unsure how to lead—not just in the bedroom, but in your relationships, your work, your purpose.
Maybe your partner wants you to step up—but you’re not even sure what “stepping up” means.
Maybe you’ve never had anyone show you what it looks like to lead with clarity, confidence, and deep integrity.
And then there’s the isolation.
Finding solid, real, trustworthy information about being a Dom is hard.
You’re craving real talk—about sex, dominance, communication, and desire.
Most of what’s out there feels shallow, performative, or totally unrealistic.
You want to explore what turns you on without shame… but also without pressure to already have it all figured out.
You want more than “spicy.”
You want depth. Power. Erotic leadership.
You want to feel like a man who knows what he’s doing—and who knows how to make her melt.
But right now?
You don’t even know what you don’t know.
You’re scared to be honest about your desires.
You’re worried about being rejected—or not being good enough.
You’re frustrated with performance issues or uncertainty in the bedroom.
You feel stuck in the very place that’s supposed to be most free.
If that’s you, you’re not alone. And you don’t have to stay stuck there…
I Was Just Like You Once...
Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom.
Today I help men step into their Dominance, guide women into surrender, and support couples in creating deeper intimacy, wilder sex, and stronger emotional connection.
But I wasn’t always this clear or confident.
I was just like you—brimming with desire but unsure where to begin. I had a fire in me, a hunger to explore the full range of my sexuality, but no roadmap, no role models, and definitely no clue how to talk about it.
We all start out as Doms with shaky hands and weak commands.
Coming from a family with terrible relationship models—my mom raised me alone while my dad racked up divorces—I never got a healthy example of love, sex, or partnership. Still, I managed a decade-long monogamous relationship, including four years of marriage. But the passion dried up. I felt like something vital inside me was being smothered.
After the divorce, I dove headfirst into the BDSM scene. I went to my first play party (one of the biggest in the region), got trained as a dungeon monitor, hosted munches, threw my own parties, and began having deep, honest, kinky relationships with incredible women—all while learning how to be emotionally available, ethically non-monogamous, and confidently dominant.
This path changed everything—not just in the bedroom, but in my leadership, confidence, and life as a whole.
And now, I’m here to help you walk that same path—with a whole lot less confusion and trial-and-error than I went through.
Imagine Her Surrendering to You Completely…
Imagine seeing a woman sink into her sweet feminine energy and release all of her inhibitions for you.
Watch her as she goes from composed, proper “good girl” to a feral, sex-driven nympho.
Imagine her looking at you with those doe eyes—completely surrendered, fixated on you.
You are her entire world at that moment.
She is one of the greatest creations of beauty, and for that brief moment, you get to own that beauty completely.
It feels as though you're a God, because, in that world, you are.
You’re the Alpha and the Omega of her world.
The trust, devotion, and confidence she places in you to lead her, and her desire to serve you out of appreciation, will be a true power trip.
You get to feel her admiration, respect, and ultimately her love.
That feeling will make you feel invincible—like you could slay dragons.
You’re not stepping into a role; you’re being more of who you already are.
It’s simply part of your personality to want your own way, to lead from the front, to retain control, and to do things on your terms.
And it’s going to feel incredibly validating to have a woman who loves to serve and please a man like that.
If that vision stirs something deep in you—if it feels like the man you’ve always known you could be but didn’t know how to fully unlock—then this course was made for you.
Developing Dominance
This 12-step course is a complete initiation into Dominance—not just as a kink, but as a way of life. It’s broken into two powerful sections: Inner Dominance and Outer Dominance.
In the first half of the course, you’ll unlock the foundations of Inner Dominance—the mindset, presence, and self-mastery that naturally invite submission. You’ll build unshakable confidence, refine your emotional control, and begin embodying the kind of energy that makes women want to follow your lead.
The second half focuses on Outer Dominance—giving you the tools, strategies, and structure to create thrilling, consensual dynamics. You’ll learn how to confidently initiate scenes, guide your partner through deeply erotic surrender, and build a dynamic rooted in trust, safety, and raw pleasure.
Step into the solid, grounded presence that feminine partners naturally surrender to. Learn how to lead with confidence, clarity, and erotic authority—without ever needing to raise your voice or fake bravado.
From communication and calibration to aftercare and scene-building, you’ll gain the emotional intelligence and technical know-how that separate amateurs from true leaders in the D/s space.
Being a Dom isn’t just a role you play in the bedroom—it’s a powerful identity that touches every part of your life. Learn to lead in your relationships, your sex life, and your everyday world with integrity, power, and purpose.
What You'll Learn Inside Each Step
Deprogramming Yourself
Identify the societal rules, beliefs, and etiquette keeping you small or sexually suppressed.
Let go of outdated conditioning that doesn’t serve your desires or goals.
Define your personal needs and boundaries—and start standing up for them like a man.
Taking 100% Responsibility
Get radically honest about where you are—and where you truly want to be.
Define the core values that will guide your Dominance.
Build a clear action plan to start living life on your own terms.
Building Confidence
Develop an attractive self-image that draws people in naturally.
Build the inner and outer skills needed to create the life you crave.
Cultivate real self-esteem so you’re no longer needy, clingy, or insecure.
Treat yourself with the self-respect that makes others take notice.
Cultivating Awareness
Learn to track your thoughts, emotions, and body like a finely tuned instrument.
Increase emotional intelligence and empathy to lead with clarity and presence.
Fix your vibe—so you naturally command respect and attention.
Gaining Power
Learn how to inspire others to willingly give you power and authority.
Face your fears and move through them with courage and clarity.
Live in full integrity with yourself and others—because real power is clean.
Feeling Love
Open to an abundance of love without becoming soft or self-sacrificing.
Show up as a kind and generous man without giving away your power.
Accept, value, and love yourself so deeply that others can’t help but do the same.
Deciding What You Want
Uncover your deepest erotic desires and most intimate fantasies.
Define your sexual boundaries and relationship structure.
Explore your own Dominant style—what makes you a uniquely powerful Dom.
Asking For What You Want
Learn how to ask for what you want in a way that turns your submissive on.
Create safe, consensual dynamics where giving becomes a gift of devotion.
Get your needs met without guilt, manipulation, or awkwardness.
Mastering Communication
Speak your sexual desires clearly and confidently—without fear of judgment.
Make your partner feel deeply seen, understood, and led.
Assert boundaries without conflict, and negotiate like a calm, clear leader.
Give clear commands that make your submissive feel safe and turned on.
Breaking Shame
Release shame about your sexual desires and make peace with your turn-ons.
Quit judging women for their sexuality—and help them unleash it instead.
Surround yourself with people who celebrate your erotic truth.
Learn how to process shame and talk openly about your kinks and identity.
Igniting Your Sexual Dominance
Tap into your authentic Dominant headspace with ease.
Master the verbal, physical, and psychological tools of erotic leadership.
Confidently talk dirty in a way that sends your submissive into subspace.
Discover your favorite kinks, scenes, and toys—and learn how to wield them well.
Create unforgettable sex sessions that leave her breathless, blissed out, and begging for more.
Building a D/s Dynamic
Attract submissive women who crave your specific style of Dominance.
Build a dynamic that fits your actual life—whether that’s monogamous, poly, 24/7, or part-time.
Learn how to sustain long-term power exchange without it feeling like a chore
What's Included In Developing Dominance
12 clear and concise steps covering everything from fundamentals to advanced techniques. Each module features multiple lessons and exercises which build on each other to help you learn quickly.
47 modules with over 5 hours of content. The comprehensive lessons cover everything you need to know about being a Dom, all organised into bite-sized videos for easy viewing.
Actionable exercises and journaling prompts with every lesson. You won’t just be learning theory, but rather taking real action towards developing your Dominance
Practical tips from an experienced Dominant who lives the lifestyle. I’ll not only give you useful information, but also share insights into my relationships and how I work dominance into my everyday life.
Price: $800 Per Month
BONUS: Get Started with D/s Fast!
When you enroll in Developing Dominance, you immediately gain access to 2 hours of extra bonus modules that walk you through how to get started with Dominance & submission right away.
Kickstarting D/s in the Bedroom
Want to get started with D/s now and experience all the hot, passionate, kink you’ve been dreaming of? This module will help you learn how to safely and quickly do Dominance and submission in the bedroom without getting overwhelmed.
You'll learn...
Understand your role in Dominance & Submission
Easily communicate your desires and boundaries with proven frameworks
Practice consent and negotiation so you are “fuck yes!” to each others desires
How to create your first scenes and picking your first kinky activities
Important aftercare and check-in questions to ensure an unforgettable experience
Overcoming your Fears in D/s
Learn proven strategies and mindset shifts for overcoming the most common fears for a man stepping into Dominance or a woman stepping into submission.
As a Dom, he’ll overcome the…
Fear of Hurting Her
Fear of Being Abusive or Controlling
Fear of Rejection
Fear of Inadequacy or Imposter Syndrome
Fear of Responsibility
Fear of Losing Control of Himself
Fear of Being Seen or Exposed
As a sub, she’ll overcome the…
Fear of Being Out of Control
Fear of Being Used or Objectified or Disrespected
Fear of Losing Herself
Fear of Unknown
Fear It Won’t Go Right or Being Disappointed
Fear of Abandonment
Fear of Trusting the Wrong Person
Fear of Judgment
Fear of Her Own Desires
Fear of Asking for What She Really Wants
Step by Step Process to Building a D/s Dynamic
Learn how to build your Dom/sub relationship step by step—no experience or rigid contract required. This easy 5 step process will allow you to take your D/s dynamic outside of the bedroom and begin integrating into the rest of your life in a way that actually works for you.
You'll learn...
Integrate both of your desires into a structure that works with your life, not against it.
Draft submissive rules and Dominant pledges that are exciting and inspiring, not burdensome.
Negotiate with each other so you’re on the same team, not against each other.
Successfully implement your protocol without feeling overwhelmed.
Important aftercare and check-in questions to ensure an unforgettable experience
The Choice Is Yours...
Self-Study Course Only
In the Self-Study version of this course, you’re making a commitment to put in the work to change your life on your own. You’ll be given immediate access to all steps upon enrollment.
12 clear and concise steps to become Dominant
47 modules with over 5 hours of content
Actionable exercises and journaling prompts
Practical tips from an experienced Dominant
BONUS: 3 free bonus modules to get started with D/s fast!
Course + Mentorship
Get access to the course PLUS private Dom mentorship with Brandon who is committed and motivated to support you in reaching your goals.
Developing Dominance Course and materials
1:1 60-minute Mentorship calls over Zoom
Structured Assignments for your personal development
Custom growth plan tailored to your specific goals
Frequently Asked Questions
Absolutely! In fact, it’s designed for those new to the world of BDSM but who think they may want to try power play in the bedroom or in their everyday life. If this sounds like you, and you want to develop your Dominance, this course is for you.
Both! It’s appropriate for man who wishes to develop his Dominance for himself, his partners, and his future relationships.
You have access for years to come… and there is a lot in this training that you’ll probably want to come back to in the weeks after you complete it.
Yes! I want you to be thrilled with the course and to change your relationships for the better. If you aren’t satisfied with your purchase you can email me for a full refund.
One Last Word...
You were never meant to shrink yourself to fit someone else’s expectations.
You were meant to lead.
To claim what you want with confidence.
To inspire submission not through force, but through presence.
To create a life of passion, purpose, and erotic power that only a true Dominant can hold.
This path isn’t for everyone—but if you’ve read this far, you already know it’s for you.
It’s time to take the first step.
