Let’s Be Real… Finding a Kinky Partner Can Feel Impossible.
Maybe you had a taste of BDSM once, and it lit something inside you that you can’t put back to sleep.
Or maybe you’ve always had these desires—but your vanilla exes dismissed them, shamed you, or made you feel “too much.
”Perhaps you’ve tried—more than once—to create a Dom/sub relationship… only to end up frustrated, awkward, or disconnected.
When you started looking for someone who understood, you found yourself in the wasteland of modern dating: endless swipes, shallow conversations, and people who ghost the moment you get honest about what you want.
Any of this sound familiar…
You feel lost trying to find a real Dom or Sub in the chaos of modern dating.
Lonely, craving connection, but sick of people who can’t match your desires.
Done settling for surface-level flings when you crave depth, honesty, and heat.
Biting your tongue about your desires because you’re scared they’ll judge you.
You’ve met more “Instagram Doms” and “fantasy subs” than real ones.
Look. I get it.
Modern dating makes it easy to feel like real connection doesn’t exist anymore. Between endless swipes, surface-level conversations, and people afraid of their own desires, it’s no wonder so many of us feel alone in what we crave.
But there is another way—one built on honesty, desire, and the kind of connection that actually feeds you.
So let's swipe left on the bullshit.
I Was Just Like You Once...
Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom.
Today, I help men step into their Dominance, guide women into surrender, and support couples in creating deeper intimacy, wilder sex, and stronger emotional connection.
But I wasn’t always this clear or confident.
I used to scroll through dating apps wondering if anyone actually wanted what I wanted. I felt the pull toward something deeper—power exchange, devotion, honesty—but I had no idea how to find it.
No roadmap. No role models. No clue how to talk about it without scaring people off.
Like you, I’d been through relationships that looked fine on the outside but felt empty on the inside. A decade-long one, even a marriage… until I realized the passion had faded and I was starving for real connection.
After my divorce, I dove into dating and the BDSM scene—messy, exciting, and eye-opening. I met incredible women, built ethically non-monogamous relationships, learned how to communicate my desires clearly, and discovered what it truly means to lead with integrity and confidence.
What I found changed everything.
Not just in the bedroom, but in my leadership, my confidence, and how I show up in every relationship.
And now, I’m here to help you skip the years of confusion and trial-and-error I went through—so you can find the right partner and build a D/s dynamic that actually works.
What If You Didn't Have To Struggle To Find Someone?
What if dating didn’t feel like work—and instead felt like play, like exploration, like freedom?
Imagine meeting someone who shares your values, your desires, and your hunger for something real. Someone who can meet your energy, your honesty, your edge.
Imagine feeling seen—not judged, not shamed—for who you are and what you crave.
Imagine building a relationship that actually feeds you. A dynamic where trust and desire grow together, and your sex life feels magnetic, alive, and deeply nourishing.
This isn’t a fantasy. It’s what happens when you stop settling, get clear on what you want, and learn how to attract the right kind of partner.
It’s time to stop hiding your desires and start living them—because you deserve the kind of intimacy that excites you, grounds you, and makes you feel completely alive.
Dom/sub Dating
You’ve done the swiping, the guessing, the hoping—and you’re done wasting time on people who don’t get it.
It’s time to find real connection with someone who shares your desires, your depth, and your drive.
Whether you want your forever person or a partner to explore your kinky side with, Dom/Sub Dating gives you the exact roadmap to find them—without the burnout, confusion, or disappointment.
What You'll Learn Inside Each Step
Becoming Secure in Yourself
Develop an attractive self-image that draws people in naturally.
Build both the inner strength and outer habits that make you magnetic.
Cultivate real self-esteem so you’re no longer needy, clingy, or insecure.
Treat yourself with the self-respect that commands attention and desire.
What Do You Want?
Define exactly who and what you’re looking for, so you never waste time again.
Speak your Needs, Desires, Boundaries, and Limits with confidence and clarity.
Use non-negotiables and healthy flexibility to screen for perfect matches.
The Search
The sobering truth about Red Flags vs Green Flags.
Optimize your dating app profiles with proven examples you can copy and tweak.
Discover where to meet genuine kink-minded people—in person and online.
The Date
Master what to say (and what not to say) to spark chemistry and trust.
Reveal your kinky side with ease—no awkward confessions required.
Follow a clear vetting process to spot the real deal from the pretenders.
Building a D/s Dynamic
Follow a simple 5-step process for building a thriving, sustainable D/s relationship.
Design a dynamic that fits your real life—monogamous, poly, 24/7, or part-time.
Learn how to sustain long-term power exchange without it feeling like a chore.
What's Included In Dom/sub Dating
5 clear and concise steps covering everything from match to date. Each module features multiple lessons and exercises which build on each other to help you learn quickly.
15 modules with over 2 hours of content. The comprehensive lessons cover everything you need to know, all organised into bite-sized videos for easy viewing.
Actionable exercises and journaling prompts with every lesson. You won’t just be learning theory, but rather taking real action towards finding your ideal partner.
Practical tips from an experienced Dominant who lives the lifestyle. I’ll not only give you useful information, but also share insights into my relationships.
Price: $800 Per Month
The Choice Is Yours...
Self-Study Course
Immediate access to all modules. Learn at your own pace.
A step by step process for kinky dating.
X bite-sized modules (X hours of video)
Actionable exercises and journaling prompts
Practical tips from an experienced Dominant
Course + 1:1 Coaching
Includes the full course PLUS a private 60-minute Zoom call with Brandon. Get personalized guidance, assignments, and a custom growth plan.
Dom/sub Dating Course and materials
1:1 60-minute Mentorship calls over Zoom
Custom growth plan tailored to your specific goals
One Last Word...
You weren’t meant to settle for almosts.
You were meant to feel seen, desired, and met in the deepest parts of who you are.
To stop dimming your desires.
To stop trying to fit into vanilla boxes that were never made for you.
To experience the kind of connection that feels like home—and fire—all at once.
Whether you’re meant to lead or surrender, your path to real love starts the moment you decide to stop hiding.
If you’re still reading this, you’re ready.
It’s time to stop searching for the right partner… and start becoming the one they’ve been looking for.
Frequently Asked Questions
Absolutely! In fact, it’s designed for those new to the world of BDSM but who think they may want to try power play in the bedroom or in their everyday life. If this sounds like you, and you want to find a partner, this course is for you.
You have access for years to come… and there is a lot in this training that you’ll probably want to come back to in the weeks after you complete it.
Yes! I want you to be thrilled with the course and to change your relationships for the better. If you aren’t satisfied with your purchase you can email me for a full refund.
