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Recent Advice Articles

Bootstrapping a D/s Dynamic: The Bottom-Up Approach to Building Dom Sub Dynamics with New Partners

Want a D/s dynamic but not sure how to start with a new partner? Learn how to build your Dom/sub relationship step by step—no experience or rigid contract required. Explore bottom-up D/s dynamics that grow with you.

How to Have Difficult Conversations with Your Partner

Need to have a talk with a partner? This guide explores the art of navigating difficult conversations, with proven tools for improving communication skills, and creating deeper connections—whether in serious or casual relationships.

Degradation Kink: A Misunderstood Dark Art in BDSM

What draws people to degradation kink, and how can something so taboo become deeply healing? This article unpacks the psychology, purpose, and ethical practice of degradation kink in BDSM, including how it differs from humiliation and objectification. Learn how to engage in these dark arts with intention, consent, and care—for both Dominants and submissives.

Primal Play: Learn to Have Sex Like an Animal

Ever felt the urge to growl, bite, or pin your partner down in a wild, uninhibited frenzy? Primal play is a raw and instinctual form of BDSM that strips away rules and protocol, letting your animalistic desires take over. Whether you're into rough sex, consensual non-consent (CNC), wrestling for dominance, or simply craving deep, carnal connection—this guide explores everything you need to unleash your wild side.

Master the Dominant Mindset: 3 Keys to Authentic Power in the Bedroom

Want to step into a truly dominant mindset without feeling like you're just playing a role? Discover how embracing your authentic desires, removing shame, and learning to take control will transform your confidence and give your submissive exactly what she craves.