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Men's Guide to Dominant Sex in the Bedroom

Want to have more dominant sex? Has your partner asked you to be more dominant in the bedroom? Or maybe it excites, but you have no idea where to start or how to develop your sexual dominance? Then this guide is for you.

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19 Submissive Positions Every Dom and Sub Should Know

Curious how submissive positions can transform your D/s dynamic? This guide breaks down the most essential submissive positions for training, protocol, rituals, and erotic play—helping you deepen connection, heighten power exchange, and create hotter, more intentional BDSM experiences.

Self-BDSM Practices, Solo Play, and Getting Freaky with Yourself

Curious about self BDSM? Learn how to explore kink on your own, build real skills, discover your desires, and prepare yourself for powerful D/s relationships—whether or not you have a partner.

Roleplay Sex Made Hotter, Easier, and Less Awkward

What makes roleplay sex so exciting? Discover how erotic roleplay engages your most powerful sexual organ—the brain—while helping you explore taboo desires, deepen intimacy, and have a lot more fun in and out of the bedroom.

How to Support BDSM & Sexual Partners with Trauma

How can you support a partner with trauma while exploring sex or BDSM safely and lovingly? Learn trauma-informed ways to build trust, create emotional safety, and help your partner reconnect with their body, pleasure, and power.

Predicament Bondage: Turning Submission into an Exhilarating Game

Curious about predicament bondage? Discover how this unique form of BDSM combines restraint, creativity, and psychology to create thrilling challenges where the submissive must choose between pain, pleasure, or surrender.

Is a Free Use Kink Really Just Unlimited Sex?

Curious about free use kink? Discover what it is, how it works, why people enjoy it, and the rules of consent that make it both thrilling and safe. Learn how to explore free use kink responsibly in this guide.

The Beginner’s Handbook to Attending a BDSM Play Party

Ever wondered what really goes on at a BDSM Play Party? Learn how to survive your first event, turn nerves into confidence, and have an unforgettable night of kink, connection, and fun—without feeling lost or overwhelmed.

Praise Kink: The Deeper Intimate Power Play You’re Not Talking About

What if praise could unravel you more than pain? Explore the psychology, power, and erotic depth of a praise kink—and how to use it to deepen intimacy.

Why BDSM Play Is More Than Just Kinky Fun

What if BDSM play is more than just kink? Explore how BDSM play can become a powerful tool for psychological growth, shadow integration, and deeper self-awareness through role play.

Tantric Eye Gazing: A Practice Far More Vulnerable Than Sex

What if deeper intimacy could begin with a single gaze? Eye gazing is a powerful Tantric practice that helps couples and individuals build connection, trust, and presence by simply looking into each other’s eyes. Learn the difference between eye gazing and staring, why it’s so transformative, and how to start your own practice—solo or with a partner.

Public Play, Public Sex, and How to Discreetly Get Freaky in Public

Curious how to explore your kinks in public without getting caught? This guide to public play and public sex shows you how to stay discreet, ethical, and wildly turned on—anywhere.

Light Bondage for Beginners (Without Learning Rope!)

Curious about bondage but not ready for rope? Discover light bondage for beginners—safe, sexy ways to restrain your partner without needing knots. Learn fun, easy techniques using everyday items and build trust and intimacy in your BDSM play.

Degradation Kink: A Misunderstood Dark Art in BDSM

What draws people to degradation kink, and how can something so taboo become deeply healing? This article unpacks the psychology, purpose, and ethical practice of degradation kink in BDSM, including how it differs from humiliation and objectification. Learn how to engage in these dark arts with intention, consent, and care—for both Dominants and submissives.

Primal Play: Learn to Have Sex Like an Animal

Ever felt the urge to growl, bite, or pin your partner down in a wild, uninhibited frenzy? Primal play is a raw and instinctual form of BDSM that strips away rules and protocol, letting your animalistic desires take over. Whether you're into rough sex, consensual non-consent (CNC), wrestling for dominance, or simply craving deep, carnal connection—this guide explores everything you need to unleash your wild side.

Orgasm Control: So Much More Than Edging

Curious about taking pleasure to the next level? Discover how orgasm control goes far beyond edging, exploring techniques like forced orgasms and orgasm denial to create intense connection, arousal, and submission.

Tantric Touch: More Than Just a Pleasurable Massage

Want to deepen intimacy and pleasure through touch? Tantric Touch enhances connection with intentional, mindful techniques for sensual intimacy, deeper bonding, and experiencing pleasure beyond goal-driven sex.

Tantric Breathing for Sex: A Simple Tool for Deeper Intimacy and Pleasure

Looking to deepen your intimacy and enhance pleasure? Discover the power of tantric breathing techniques and learn how to connect with your partner on a whole new level through mindful breathwork.

Face Slapping During Sex Guide: Techniques & Risks

Learn how to safely slap your partner in the face during sex to increase pleasure and polarize power play.

Cockwarming Guide: How to Engage in A Sexy, Simple Act of Service

Want to learn a sexy, simple pass-time to incorporate in your D/s dynamic? Try Cockwarming.

Two Must-Ask Questions for Better Sex

These two deceptively simple questions will change your sex life and drastically improve your chances of finding fulfillment in your pleasure.

Face Fucking Guide: Techniques and Positions for Aggressive Oral Sex

Learn techniques and positions for safely and pleasurably engaging in face fucking and other types of aggressive oral sex.

Biting During Sex Guide: Tips & Techniques

Learn how to safely bite your partner during sex to increase pleasure, eroticism, and primal energy.

Tantric Yoni Massage Guide: Pleasure Her Body Like She’s Never Felt Before

Looking to add a sensual touch to your intimate moments? Use the power of Tantric yoni massage to give her pleasure she's never experienced before and deep, emotional connection.

Hair Pulling During Sex Guide: Tips & Techniques

Learn how to properly pull someone's hair during sex to make it a pleasurable experience rather than a painful one.

Not All DDlg is the Same: How to Enjoy DDlg without Ageplay

Curious about DDlg or Daddy Dom/ little girl dynamics in BDSM buy not sure about ageplay? Learn some misconceptions about DDlg, the psychology of someone who might enjoy it, and ways to experience without ageplay.

How to Deal with Sub drop Physically, Mentally, and Emotionally

Feeling down or out of energy after your intense BDSM scene? You're likely experiencing sub drop. This article will highlight what sub drop is and how to remedy it physically, mentally, and emotionally.

Manhandling Guide: Techniques & Tips for Rougher Sex & BDSM Play

Learn how to manhandle your submissive in the bedroom so she can feel your Dominance and intensify her pleasure in sex and BDSM play.

Erotic Choking Guide: Safer Techniques for Sex and BDSM Play

Learn the risks and considerations for engaging in erotic choking and how to safely incorporate it into sex.

BDSM Spanking Guide: Tips, Techniques, and Positions for Erotic Spanking

Learn the best techniques and positions for delivering an unforgettable spanking experience for your submissive.

What You Should Know About Consent in BDSM

Learn about consent in BDSM and the various models of consent including implied, express, and informed consent, plus the undervalued Wheel of Consent model.

How to Last Longer During Sex: 7 Proven Techniques

Cumming to quickly? Want to increase the amount of time you have intercourse? This article will breakdown everything you need to know about lasting longer during sex including the one must know concept of PNR and 7 techniques that will take from ejaculating mere minutes to lasting as long as you'd like.

3 Pillars to Structure the Perfect BDSM Scene

Want to craft a great BDSM scene? These 3 foundational pillars will equip you with an easy to use formula for you to create scenes that will help Doms and subs reach the heights of pleasure and depths of subspace.

A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Subs

Want to up your dirty talk game as a submissive? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, requests, fantasy, begging, being owner, and self degradation, with dozens of examples of submissive dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and invite your Dom to take you.

A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Doms

Want to learn how to dirty talk so that you drive your submissive wild? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, commands, fantasy, ownership, and degradation with dozens of examples of Dominant dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and never run out of naughty things to say.

Sex Menu: Ultimate Tool To Quickly Communicate Your Desires

Having trouble communicating your desires with your partner? Try using a sex menu, a powerful tool for telling your partner everything that turns you on, quickly and with less anxiety about talking about your desires!

Ultimate Guide to Sexual Performance Anxiety for Men

Feeling anxious about preforming in the bedroom? Experiencing erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation and unsure why it may be occurring? This guide to sexual performance anxiety will tell you what is, why it occurs, how its linked to ED and PE, and how you can overcome it to get back to a fulfilling sex life.

5 Tools to Communicate Your Sexual Turn Ons

You have so many desires you wish to have fulfilled, yet you don't know how to bring them up with your partner... Worse yet, you fear they will judge you, shame you, find you disgusting... How will you ever live out your fantasies? These 5 tools will make communicating with your partner quick, easy, and a lot of fun for the both of you, all within a container of openness and non-judgement.

Cunnilingus Masterclass: 9 Steps to Amazing Oral Sex That Will Make Her Scream

Want to learn how to do cunnilingus and give a woman the best oral sex of her life? The principles and techniques listed here are going to set you apart from all other guys who leave women completely unsatisfied after they go down on her (if they even do).

3 Tools to Discover Your Sexual Turn Ons

How much do you actually understand your turn ons? Has a partner asked you how they could please you, and you just kind of stared at them blankly, unable to describe your desires? Do you really even know what you desire? If not, then here are 3 tools to help you explore your erotic mind and uncover your deepest sexual desires.

A Practical Guide to Tantric Sex for Beginners

Curious about tantric sex but have no idea where to start? Want to deepen your emotional connection, enhance your pleasure, and feel closer to your partner than you have ever before? Then this guide on sex and tantra is for you.

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Sexual Spanking Scene

Download the perfect example scene full of spanking, light impact play, and some sexual fun to tie pain and pleasure together and make her squirm with every swat to her butt!

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Pleasure Maximization Scene

Download the perfect example scene for a Pleasure Dom to drive your submissive wild and give her multiple orgasms and ending in synchronized orgasms for you both!

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Submissive Dirty Talk Cheat Sheet

Want to spice up your dirty talk and let him hear how much you want to be submissive for him? Here’s a free dirty talk cheat sheet containing over 74 dirty phrases for you to use with your Dominant. Guarantee that using these will make his eyes light up with desire and urge him to completely ravish you!

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Dominant Dirty Talk Cheat Sheet

Want to learn how to dirty talk so that you drive your submissive wild? Here’s a free dirty talk cheat sheet containing 74 dirty phrases for you to use with your submissive. Practice and use them to quickly and easily spice up your dynamic and sex life!

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Sex Menu Template

A sex menu is a communication and self discovery tool. If you have a hard time speaking about sex in person, your desires, and your boundaries, it can be easier to write it down. Most people have also never taken the time to really express what turns them on, what they want in sex, and just leave it up to chance. In my experience, great consistent sex happens with communication (and a whole lot of fun along the way.) This free, easy to use template features 350+ kinky sex acts you can rate, make notes, and share with your partner!

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