Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach—and I help men develop their dominance, women to surrender to their submission, and couples to experience deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy.
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Curious about Dominance and submission but not sure where to start? This free 3-part video series is your step-by-step roadmap to kickstarting D/s in the bedroom, overcoming your biggest fears, and building a Dom/sub relationship with confidence.
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Packed with real-life stories, raw honesty, and zero fluff, this book cuts through the BS and delivers the tools you need to transform your relationships and unlock a level of intimacy you never thought possible. You’ll learn how to step fully into your power—inside and outside the bedroom. Whether you're a seasoned Dom or just starting to explore your dominant side, "Enter the Dom" is your essential guide to becoming the man women respect, desire, and willingly submit to.
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A practical communication masterclass that teaches you how to identify your desires, ask for them clearly, and assert them with confidence—in and out of the bedroom.
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A step-by-step masterclass that teaches Dominants how to take control of a submissive’s erotic mind—so she craves your voice, obeys your commands, and melts into surrender, without memorizing lines or trying to sound fake.
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A proven 5-step process for meeting aligned partners, dating with confidence, and building deep, sustainable power exchange without playing games or hiding your desires.
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Master the 12 essential steps to become a good Dom—build the skills, mindset, and presence of a man she respects, desires, and willingly surrenders to—inside and outside the bedroom.
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Want a way to keep a regular pulse on your dynamic? With these relationship check in questions you'll be able to express gratitude, address problems, uncover needs and desires, and improve both sides of the slash so that you have a healthy, loving, and thriving dynamic.
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Want to up your dirty talk game as a submissive? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, requests, fantasy, begging, being owner, and self degradation, with dozens of examples of submissive dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and invite your Dom to take you.
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Want to learn how to dirty talk so that you drive your submissive wild? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, commands, fantasy, ownership, and degradation with dozens of examples of Dominant dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and never run out of naughty things to say.
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Wishing your man would be more dominant in the bedroom? Use these 5 easy steps rooted in his psychology to help encourage him and draw out that strong, masculine Dominance you have been craving.
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Want to know what subspace is? This article will walk you through this altered state of consciousness, why it happens (and feels so great!), how to get into subspace, dangers and risks to watch out for, and how to transition out of subspace to avoid subdrop.
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So you want to be a Dom? True masculine Dominance is in short supply these days. This complete guide to becoming a Dominant man will lead you through 16 steps to developing your inner and outer Dominance so that submissive women not only think you're a Dom, but can feel Dominance radiating from your core.
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Having trouble communicating your desires with your partner? Try using a sex menu, a powerful tool for telling your partner everything that turns you on, quickly and with less anxiety about talking about your desires!
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Struggling in a sexually incompatible relationship? Maybe your libidos are mismatched or you have different sex drives, desires, or relationship structures you wish to pursue. This article will give you three options for you can fix your sexual incompatibility and return to a thriving sex life.
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Looking for tasks to give your submissive? Use these 8 types of BDSM tasks for improving your D/s dynamic, helping your submissive grow, and having a lot of sexy fun along the way!
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Feeling anxious about preforming in the bedroom? Experiencing erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation and unsure why it may be occurring? This guide to sexual performance anxiety will tell you what is, why it occurs, how its linked to ED and PE, and how you can overcome it to get back to a fulfilling sex life.
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