Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach—and I help men develop their dominance, women to surrender to their submission, and couples to experience deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy.
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Curious about Dominance and submission but not sure where to start? This free 3-part video series is your step-by-step roadmap to kickstarting D/s in the bedroom, overcoming your biggest fears, and building a Dom/sub relationship with confidence.
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Packed with real-life stories, raw honesty, and zero fluff, this book cuts through the BS and delivers the tools you need to transform your relationships and unlock a level of intimacy you never thought possible. You’ll learn how to step fully into your power—inside and outside the bedroom. Whether you're a seasoned Dom or just starting to explore your dominant side, "Enter the Dom" is your essential guide to becoming the man women respect, desire, and willingly submit to.
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In this training, master the 12 essential steps to become a good Dom—build the skills, mindset, and presence of a man she respects, desires, and willingly surrenders to. Learn to lead with confidence inside and outside the bedroom.
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Private 1:1 (or 1:2) coaching to help men develop their Dominance, women to surrender to their submission, and couples to experience deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, fulfilling emotional intimacy, and integrating loving Dom/sub dynamics into your relationships.
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Feeling shame for your sexual desires? This guide will give you 7 tactics for identifying the stories behind your shame and allowing you to break free from shame, accept yourself, and be able to flourish in your sexual expression.
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Ready to take your D/s dynamic to the next level? This guide will walk you step by step through structuring your D/s dynamic using a Dom sub contract, sometimes referred to as a slave contract or BDSM contract, complete with rules, rituals, protocols, punishments, and a structure that suits your reality and makes space for both of your needs and desires.
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Ladies, do you want to become a submissive? This complete guide to becoming a submissive woman will lead you through 14 steps on your submissive journey from understanding yourself, getting in touch with your emotions and desires, and finding a Dom you respect and can fully surrender to.
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Want a way to keep a regular pulse on your dynamic? With these relationship check in questions you'll be able to express gratitude, address problems, uncover needs and desires, and improve both sides of the slash so that you have a healthy, loving, and thriving dynamic.
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Want to up your dirty talk game as a submissive? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, requests, fantasy, begging, being owner, and self degradation, with dozens of examples of submissive dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and invite your Dom to take you.
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Want to learn how to dirty talk so that you drive your submissive wild? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, commands, fantasy, ownership, and degradation with dozens of examples of Dominant dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and never run out of naughty things to say.
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Wishing your man would be more dominant in the bedroom? Use these 5 easy steps rooted in his psychology to help encourage him and draw out that strong, masculine Dominance you have been craving.
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Want to know what subspace is? This article will walk you through this altered state of consciousness, why it happens (and feels so great!), how to get into subspace, dangers and risks to watch out for, and how to transition out of subspace to avoid subdrop.
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So you want to be a Dom? True masculine Dominance is in short supply these days. This complete guide to becoming a Dominant man will lead you through 16 steps to developing your inner and outer Dominance so that submissive women not only think you're a Dom, but can feel Dominance radiating from your core.
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Having trouble communicating your desires with your partner? Try using a sex menu, a powerful tool for telling your partner everything that turns you on, quickly and with less anxiety about talking about your desires!
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