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Learn The Fastest Way to Spark a D/s Dynamic

Curious about Dominance and submission but not sure where to start?  This free 3-part video series is your step-by-step roadmap to kickstarting D/s in the bedroom, overcoming your biggest fears, and building a Dom/sub relationship with confidence.

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Enter The Dom

The No BS Book on Dominance

Packed with real-life stories, raw honesty, and zero fluff, this book cuts through the BS and delivers the tools you need to transform your relationships and unlock a level of intimacy you never thought possible. You’ll learn how to step fully into your power—inside and outside the bedroom. Whether you're a seasoned Dom or just starting to explore your dominant side, "Enter the Dom" is your essential guide to becoming the man women respect, desire, and willingly submit to.

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Assertive Desires Masterclass

Get What You Want—and Have It Met With Desire, Not Resistance

A practical communication masterclass that teaches you how to identify your desires, ask for them clearly, and assert them with confidence—in and out of the bedroom.

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Dominant Dirty Talk Masterclass

Command Surrender With Your Words Alone

A step-by-step masterclass that teaches Dominants how to take control of a submissive’s erotic mind—so she craves your voice, obeys your commands, and melts into surrender, without memorizing lines or trying to sound fake.

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Dom/sub Dating Masterclass

Stop Guessing. Start Attracting the Right Dom or Sub.

A proven 5-step process for meeting aligned partners, dating with confidence, and building deep, sustainable power exchange without playing games or hiding your desires.

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Developing Dominance

Become the Man She Craves Submitting To...

Master the 12 essential steps to become a good Dom—build the skills, mindset, and presence of a man she respects, desires, and willingly surrenders to—inside and outside the bedroom.

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Biting During Sex Guide: Tips & Techniques

Learn how to safely bite your partner during sex to increase pleasure, eroticism, and primal energy.

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Book Announcement - Enter the Dom: The No BS Book on Dominance

Announcing my upcoming book Enter the Dom: The No BS Book on Dominance

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Tantric Yoni Massage Guide: Pleasure Her Body Like She’s Never Felt Before

Looking to add a sensual touch to your intimate moments? Use the power of Tantric yoni massage to give her pleasure she's never experienced before and deep, emotional connection.

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Hair Pulling During Sex Guide: Tips & Techniques

Learn how to properly pull someone's hair during sex to make it a pleasurable experience rather than a painful one.

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Not All DDlg is the Same: How to Enjoy DDlg without Ageplay

Curious about DDlg or Daddy Dom/ little girl dynamics in BDSM buy not sure about ageplay? Learn some misconceptions about DDlg, the psychology of someone who might enjoy it, and ways to experience without ageplay.

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How to Deal with Sub drop Physically, Mentally, and Emotionally

Feeling down or out of energy after your intense BDSM scene? You're likely experiencing sub drop. This article will highlight what sub drop is and how to remedy it physically, mentally, and emotionally.

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Brat Tamer: The Secret to Taming Brat Submissives

Have a bratty submissive on your hands? Learn the secret to taming brats, effective strategies and mindsets for being a brat tamer, and example punishments for brats.

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Erotica: Turning a Respectable Woman into a Begging Daddy’s Girl

I’m a sucker for a good girl, a willing submissive, a woman who demonstrates respect and wants to be utterly ruined in the bedroom. It’s by no surprise that I’d find the land of southern hospitality in Texas fertile soil for such wonderful women.

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Manhandling Guide: Techniques & Tips for Rougher Sex & BDSM Play

Learn how to manhandle your submissive in the bedroom so she can feel your Dominance and intensify her pleasure in sex and BDSM play.

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Erotic Choking Guide: Safer Techniques for Sex and BDSM Play

Learn the risks and considerations for engaging in erotic choking and how to safely incorporate it into sex.

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