Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach—and I help men develop their dominance, women to surrender to their submission, and couples to experience deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy.
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Curious about Dominance and submission but not sure where to start? This free 3-part video series is your step-by-step roadmap to kickstarting D/s in the bedroom, overcoming your biggest fears, and building a Dom/sub relationship with confidence.
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Packed with real-life stories, raw honesty, and zero fluff, this book cuts through the BS and delivers the tools you need to transform your relationships and unlock a level of intimacy you never thought possible. You’ll learn how to step fully into your power—inside and outside the bedroom. Whether you're a seasoned Dom or just starting to explore your dominant side, "Enter the Dom" is your essential guide to becoming the man women respect, desire, and willingly submit to.
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A practical communication masterclass that teaches you how to identify your desires, ask for them clearly, and assert them with confidence—in and out of the bedroom.
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A step-by-step masterclass that teaches Dominants how to take control of a submissive’s erotic mind—so she craves your voice, obeys your commands, and melts into surrender, without memorizing lines or trying to sound fake.
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A proven 5-step process for meeting aligned partners, dating with confidence, and building deep, sustainable power exchange without playing games or hiding your desires.
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Master the 12 essential steps to become a good Dom—build the skills, mindset, and presence of a man she respects, desires, and willingly surrenders to—inside and outside the bedroom.
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Want to start getting into the kink scene and community? Try a munch, a social gathering for kinky people. In this article, learn what happens at munches, what to talk about, how to act, and where to find them.
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Learn the best techniques and positions for delivering an unforgettable spanking experience for your submissive.
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Two nomads share a final kinky night together before parting ways for their next adventures.
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Learn about consent in BDSM and the various models of consent including implied, express, and informed consent, plus the undervalued Wheel of Consent model.
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What is a Pleasure Dom, really? If you think being a Pleasure Dom is just about giving orgasms, you're mistaken. This article will reveal to you what a Pleasure Dom is, their psychology, 9 sexy tools to use as a Pleasure Dom, how to be submissive for one, and an example scene for you to try.
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Cumming to quickly? Want to increase the amount of time you have intercourse? This article will breakdown everything you need to know about lasting longer during sex including the one must know concept of PNR and 7 techniques that will take from ejaculating mere minutes to lasting as long as you'd like.
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Want to craft a great BDSM scene? These 3 foundational pillars will equip you with an easy to use formula for you to create scenes that will help Doms and subs reach the heights of pleasure and depths of subspace.
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Feeling shame for your sexual desires? This guide will give you 7 tactics for identifying the stories behind your shame and allowing you to break free from shame, accept yourself, and be able to flourish in your sexual expression.
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Ready to take your D/s dynamic to the next level? This guide will walk you step by step through structuring your D/s dynamic using a Dom sub contract, sometimes referred to as a slave contract or BDSM contract, complete with rules, rituals, protocols, punishments, and a structure that suits your reality and makes space for both of your needs and desires.
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Ladies, do you want to become a submissive? This complete guide to becoming a submissive woman will lead you through 14 steps on your submissive journey from understanding yourself, getting in touch with your emotions and desires, and finding a Dom you respect and can fully surrender to.
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