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Do You Want a Dom, a Top, or Just Some Rough Sex?

Do you actually want a Dom, a Top, or just rough sex? Many people use the word "Dominant" without defining their desires, leading to frustration and disappointment. Learn the differences between rough sex, kinky play with a skilled Top, and power exchange with a Dom—helping you clarify what you want and communicate it effectively.

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Tantric Breathing for Sex: A Simple Tool for Deeper Intimacy and Pleasure

Looking to deepen your intimacy and enhance pleasure? Discover the power of tantric breathing techniques and learn how to connect with your partner on a whole new level through mindful breathwork.

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Building Trust in Dom/sub Relationship is a Two-Way Street

Explore the two sides of trust in Dom/Sub dynamics. Understand how to be trustworthy and how to trust your partner, creating a fulfilling and secure D/s relationship.

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How to Stop Having Unfulfilling Situationships

Tired of unfulfilling situationships? Learn the simple (but sometimes hard to do) practice to build a more fulfilling relationship.

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Face Slapping During Sex Guide: Techniques & Risks

Learn how to safely slap your partner in the face during sex to increase pleasure and polarize power play.

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BDSM Rewards for Submissives

Has your submissive been a good girl? Need a way to encourage and appreciate her for her efforts? Learn about BDSM rewards for submissives including the 5 principles of rewards, the different systems and levels of rewards, and different types of rewards with examples.

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BDSM Punishments for Submissives

Has your submissive broken a rule? Need a way to correct her behavior? Learn about BDSM punishments for submissives including the 7 principles of punishments, the different levels of punishment and how to choose the correct one, and different types of punishments with examples.

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Cockwarming Guide: How to Engage in A Sexy, Simple Act of Service

Want to learn a sexy, simple pass-time to incorporate in your D/s dynamic? Try Cockwarming.

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Two Must-Ask Questions for Better Sex

These two deceptively simple questions will change your sex life and drastically improve your chances of finding fulfillment in your pleasure.

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Face Fucking Guide: Techniques and Positions for Aggressive Oral Sex

Learn techniques and positions for safely and pleasurably engaging in face fucking and other types of aggressive oral sex.

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